Don’t go down alone!

I’ll never forget the first time I met Stan Woodward when I was working at Mark Cuban’s broacast.com. Mark brought him in as a seasoned exec (he had worked for Ascend, a major networking equipment company) to run the business services division. There were only about eight of us working in that group at the …

Bathe yourself in the Brightblack Morning Light

If you like Mazzy Star, Portishead, Spiritualized or Pink Floyd, you will LOVE Brightblack Morning Light. Jacqueline and I saw them on a club tour stop at the Troubador in Hollywood a few months back, on a lark, and they were mezmerizing. Three people create a wall of soft sheen with ghostly vocals popping through. …

Paint it black

Many of us live on power point to make our points. Frequently, we might use a template that Microsoft or our company provides. Most of the time, the power point templates have a white or bright background with dark letters. All that white light on a screen (usually 30-60& of the screen doesn’t have text) …

Relax your shoulders and keep it real

I’m a big fan of American Idol. I’m not so hooked on the singers or even the format per se, but I love what the show can teach all of us about likeability. For the last few weeks, I’ve been doing radio interviews, making predictions about who would win this year and more importantly, who …

Let the sun shine in

Do you work in the dark? If you are a leader, do your people work in the dark? Recently, I’ve been studying the impact on light and productivity. I was looking into whether natural light improves our mood state (which would improve our business effectiveness). Not surprisingly, we are a product of our environment. Much …

Brag on a good mom

Mother’s Day reminds us how much we admire mothers. They give, make and bring joy into our lives. If you haven’t heard the Pizza Hut story, take a few minutes to watch this clip. You’ll reconnect to the struggle of the modern mom and how she embodies that which we would call true leadership Email …

Only make new mistakes

I’ve heard this advice from psychologists, clergy and thought leaders: It’s ok to make a mistake, just make new mistakes! The idea is that repetitive errors are the errors that doom us to failure. Frequently, we miscalculate human nature, try something and it turns out to be a disaster. Then our ego gets the best …

Manage the mood state

I’m speaking at the Injoy simulcast on Friday on the topic of The Mood State. I’ve been thinking a great deal about the role of the modern day leader. Does she manage the P&L? Does he manage a team towards a shared vision? Or is it so basic, so primal, what we are to do. …

Be thoughtful, but imperfect

Laurie David (An Inconvenient Truth) has a saying, “perfection is the enemy of good.” She’s right. If you hold yourself up to a standard of perfection, you’ll fail and give up every time. Sometimes, especially when you are trying to do the right thing, you need to give yourself a break. If you are trying …

Experience your people’s workaday

One of the most important elements of leadership is empathy. If you sincerely try to see things from another person’s point of view, you are rewarded by them handsomely. As Dr. Stephen Covey says, “seek first to understand, then to be understood.” It’s hard, though. You really don’t know how your sales person feels. You …