Boost your confidence with a little Know-How

We need to boost our sense of total confidence.   Over the last few speaking engagements, I've been focusing on this issue.  I believe that the reason people get selfish is because they lose their total confidence:  themselves, the groups they are a part of and the greater community.  Layoffs, cutbacks and scare-stories have infiltrated …

Leverage gratefulness for a more effective (and happy) life

Today, I'm grateful. This feeling will inoculate me from a bad mood, uncooperative behavior and a lack of energy.  Why am I grateful?  I have this feeling because I practice gratefulness every morning. It is my new morning devotional. With my morning cup of coffee, I create list of things to be grateful for. I'm …

Don’t give up the game until it is over

Yesterday I had a speaking gig in Cleveland.   During the day, I found out that the Middle American Conference was opening it's 2009 NCAA conference tourney at the Quicken Loans center — right behind my hotel. I love a good game, especially March madness. I bought a cheap ticket, wiggled my way to a …

Just skip the scramble

Today I made the decision to hunker down and have a conference call in a closet. Why?  Fighting traffic is dangerous, unnerving and bad for the soul.   It's better to conduct business in an unconventional place than to kill yourself trying to get to one. Last night I got back from a speaking gig/vacation in …

One extra hour of revenue creating (sales) activity per day

This is targeted to sales, small business owners and entrepreneurs: The best way to counter the economy's funk is to create your own oasis of good news: with a sale.  This week, you need to add five hours of "money-seeking" time to your schedule.  If you sell a service, go back to some old clients …

What is your Inbox handicap?

No one that I know, except Raytheon's CEO, kills their Inbox everyday.  Try as you will, you still have several emails left in your Inbox every day. When you are traveling, it grows to more than a few.  Over the last year, I've been trying to kill my Inbox everyday. It is important to respond …

Obey the Law Of Abundance

More than ever, we need to find ways to avoid scarcity thinking.  In my experience, there is a big difference between being paranoid and practical.  When scarcity sets in, you forget about the Law Of Abundance and sink into a lower place.  You push people away, become self-needs centered and react to all change like …

The “Five To One” recession rule of sales

Stanley Marcus Jr. had a great mind for both customer service and sales.  In late 2000, as the dotcom bubble started to burst and advertisers started to cut budgets, I talked with Mr. Marcus about our sales challenges. He offered me a simple rule of thumb that changed my outlook (and later my sales life). …

Tim Ferriss on Fearmongering

Many of us are grappling with our fears in light of the current economic situation.  If you own a business, you are likely battling manic depression. Does this help?  Of course not.  But how do we hack our way out of this mindset?  Life hacker extraordinaire Tim Ferriss (author of the must-read book, 4 Hour …

Go break some ribs

One of my best friends, Anthony, recently saw Jim Carrey's latest movie Yes Man.  He loved it.   He read that when the film was being taped, Carrey was "so into it, he broke four of his ribs."  In the acting world, we call that being fully committed to a role.  Carrey's generosity was the …